Gwyneth Paltrow Reveals When She And Chris Martin Really Separated

They "consciously uncoupled" long before we thought they did.
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Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin seem to speak about their divorce in literally every interview they've given since 2014, but it turns out there's one tiny detail we might not've known about their split. 

Paltrow and Martin, the king and queen of conscious uncoupling, broke up earlier than we thought. 

"We had broken up a year before we announced it, so we would have this time to work through everything," Paltrow told Red magazine in a new interview. In the statement issued after the two split, the actress and musician alluded to spending some time apart, saying "We have been working hard for well over a year, some of it together, some of it separated, to see what might have been possible between us..."

Paltrow went on to say that the split has not been easy for the two of them, but they've worked as hard as possible to put their children first. 

"It’s also almost about having to press the ‘override’ button whenever you feel angry or jealous or whatever, broken-hearted," the "Iron Man 3" actress explained. "You have to press the button -- I’m going back to the baseline of I love this person, he’s the father of my children, he’s a wonderful man. I’m just going to put my shit aside for right now." 

Paltrow and Martin were married in 2003 and have two children together, Apple and Moses. Since their uncoupling, Paltrow has been spotted with rumored love interest Brad Falchuk, while Martin was linked to Jennifer Lawrence, Annabelle Wallis and most recently, Heather Graham

 To read the rest of Paltrow's interview with Red, head here.

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FILE - This April 18, 2013 file photo shows actress Gwyneth Paltrow at the Tiffany & Co. Blue Book Ball at Rockefeller Center in New York. (credit:AP)
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In this Monday, April 22, 2013 photo, Gwyneth Paltrow and Robert Downey Jr. pose for a portrait at the Four Seasons Hotel in Los Angeles. (credit:AP)
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This film publicity image released by Disney-Marvel Studios shows Robert Downey Jr., left, as Tony Stark/Iron Man and Gwyneth Paltrow as Pepper Potts in a scene from "Iron Man 3." (AP Photo/Disney, Marvel Studios) (credit:AP)
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Actress Gwyneth Paltrow arrives at the world premiere of Marvel's "Iron Man 3" at the El Capitan Theatre on Wednesday, April 24, 2013, in Los Angeles. (Photo by Jordan Strauss/Invision/AP) (credit:AP)
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This cover image released by People shows actress Gwyneth Paltrow on the cover of a special double issue. The 40-year-old actress tops the magazine's annual list of the "World's Most Beautiful," announced Wednesday, April 24, 2013. (AP Photo/People Magazine) (credit:AP)
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U.S actress Gwyneth Paltrow poses for photographers during the Iron Man 3 premiere, in Paris, Sunday April 14, 2013. (AP Photo/Thibault Camus) (credit:AP)
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Gwyneth Paltrow, left, and Robert Downey Jr. pose during a photo call to promote their new movie "Iron Man 3" in Munich, southern Germany, Friday, April 12, 2013. (AP Photo/Matthias Schrader) (credit:AP)
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Gwyneth Paltrow poses with her new book "It's All Good: Delicious, Easy Recipes That Will Make You Look Good and Feel Great," before a signing at Barnes and Noble on Wednesday, April 3, 2013 in Los Angeles. (Photo by Chris Pizzello/Invision/AP) (credit:AP)
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