The Entitled Gilmore Girl

5 Ways Rory Is An Entitled Gilmore Girl
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I know, everyone is sick of hearing about the revival of the “Gilmore Girls,” but I need to get something off my chest. Rory Gilmore demonstrated the effects of being raised entitled... therefore becoming the quintessential millennial and I’m pissed. If you are a millennial and are reading this, I’m sorry you keep getting such a bad rap ― blame it on the idiots you grew up with.

Where did it all go wrong? I’ll tell you.

  1. She never had a real job. Sure she was editor of whatever paper at the time, but she was never required to get a job or do real labor. Her mom worked at an inn, how easy it would have been to clean rooms on the weekend or scrub dishes after school. This fed her lack of work ethic which was so clearly demonstrated in the revival. She has no job, but can jet set around to sleep with her ex-boyfriend that is engaged to someone else. WTF.
  2. Lack of empathy. If you watch the original seven seasons it is demonstrated again and again that she lacks empathy. For those of you confused by the term it means: ‘the ability to understand and share the feelings of another.’ Need an example? How about the fact that she couldn’t be bothered to show up to her own mother’s graduation or how she treated Dean throughout their entire relationship.
  3. Someone always caught her. When she decided to drop out of school, instead of being forced to figure out that life is hard, she moved in with her grandparents. In the newest episodes, she falls back on Logan, Lane, Paris and everyone else in her past to support her while she galavants all over the world.
  4. So self-absorbed. In the early seasons it was always about Rory getting ahead. How could she stand out? How could she get into Harvard? Everything she pursued resulted in sacrifices from everyone else around her. She never had a chance as an adult. In A Year In The Life she drops in on friends when it is convenient for her, she doesn’t give a shit what is going on in their life.
  5. No responsibility. She never really took full responsibility for her actions, sure she would apologize but the behavior never changed. How about when she broke up Dean’s marriage...that was cool. Her behavior didn’t change when we caught back up with her and Logan. Also, can we all agree that him calling her ‘Ace’ is completely condescending?

Maybe I’m just bitter that there was no closure and that Jess kept his shirt on. The fact is, I hated the ending, she is knocked up at 32 (ever heard of a condom or birth control) ― she is alone, unemployed and living at home. Don’t worry Rory, someone will always be there to take care of you.

P.S. I love Alexis Bledel as an actress and I am not sure she was so enthralled with her characters choices either.

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Before You Go

The 18 Most Important "Gilmore Girls" Episodes
Season 1, Episode 1: "Pilot"(01 of18)
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We meet Lorelai, we meet Rory, we get introduced to Stars Hollow. No matter how well you think you know "Gilmore Girls," you can't get away with not re-watching the pilot episode. (credit:The WB )
Season 1, Episode 7: "Kiss And Tell” (02 of18)
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Rory's first kiss with the tall, dark and handsome Dean. Need we say more? (credit:The WB)
Season 1, Episode 17: "The Breakup, Part 2”(03 of18)
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Because Rory's heartbreak is so relatable that it breaks the heart of every "Gilmore Girls" fan. She will not wallow! (credit:The WB)
Season 2, Episode 1: "Sadie, Sadie” (04 of18)
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In "Sadie, Sadie," Lorelai gets engaged to Rory's teacher, Max. Scandalous. (credit:The WB)
Season 2, Episode 9: "Run Away, Little Boy”(05 of18)
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Here, we get one of our first hints that Rory may have a future with bad boys. Tristan (Chad Michael Murray) is super into her, and Dean does not like it. (credit:The WB)
Season 2, Episode 19: "Teach Me Tonight” (06 of18)
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Why hello there, Jess! We see Rory get herself into quite a bit of trouble when she attempts to tutor Luke's nephew. Broken bones, crashed cars ... it's not pretty, but it's certainly thrilling. (credit:The WB)
Season 3, Episode 7: "They Shoot Gilmores, Don't They?”(07 of18)
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This episode is mostly great because it involves a Stars Hollow Dance Marathon. Even better, a ton of drama happens on the dance floor ... like when Dean announces that Rory's into Jess and dumps her. (credit:The WB)
Season 3, Episode 9: "A Deep-Fried Korean Thanksgiving”(08 of18)
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First of all, fall in Stars Hollow is magical. But also, watching Lorelai and Rory bounce from Thanksgiving dinner to Thanksgiving dinner is hilarious ... and further proves that the mother-daughter duo are bottomless pits. (credit:The WB)
Season 3, Episode 16: "The Big One”(09 of18)
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Rory was supposed to go to Harvard, right? Wrong. In "The Big One," Rory gets accepted to Harvard, Princeton and Yale, and her good friend Paris humiliates her on live television. (credit:The WB)
Season 3, Episode 20: "Say Goodnight, Gracie" (10 of18)
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More Jess drama! He's nothing but trouble; Rory loves him so much, and it's heartbreaking. Also, Dean gets engaged. Rough. (credit:The WB)
Season 4, Episode 2: "The Lorelais' First Day at Yale”(11 of18)
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Going away to college is tough. Just ask anyone who's done it. It's even tougher when your mom is your best friend, so this episode is obviously an emotional (and great) one. (credit:The WB)
Season 4, Episode 22: "Raincoats and Recipes"(12 of18)
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Rory loses her virginity! And not to whom you'd expect. (credit:The WB)
Season 5, Episode 3: "Written in the Stars”(13 of18)
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Luke and Lorelai, together at last! (credit:The WB)
Season 5, Episode 22: "A House Is Not a Home”(14 of18)
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Rory goes to jail thanks to a little adventure she went on with her latest flame, Logan. Oof. (credit:The WB)
Season 6, Episode 18: "The Real Paul Anka”(15 of18)
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This is Jess' final appearance. And no true "Gilmore Girls" fan ever stopped missing him. (credit:The WB)
Season 7, Episode 7: "French Twist"(16 of18)
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Sorry Luke, but Christopher made his move in a big way in this episode ... by proposing to and marrying Lorelai in Paris. Talk about sweeping a girl off her feet! (credit:The CW)
Season 7, Episode 21: "Unto the Breach”(17 of18)
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Although her mother has had a couple marriage proposals, this is Rory's first. And she says she has to think about it! Such an independent woman. (credit:The CW)
Season 7, Episode 22: "Bon Voyage”(18 of18)
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It goes without saying that the "Gilmore Girls" season finale is a must-see, but this is especially true because Rory ran off to work for Obama before Obama was really a thing, and Lorelai and Luke look like they're going to get back together. Phew! (credit:The CW)